…for a new year?
I realize that a lot of my blog posts have become a soliloquy of ‘what does ____ mean to Anna Kate’. Just an observation…let the soliloquy begin!
I’m not a big New Year’s resolution maker. I do take a few moments to consider ways to better myself in the new year but I don’t make a poster and tape it to the fridge. I don’t feel the need. Plus, when I’m having one of those days (I’m sure you’ve all had one of those days) I don’t need a written reminder to sink me lower in the funk. I also take a little mental trip through the soon-to-be-over year to remember both the highs and lows. It’s my own way of staying grounded. Whether the year is coming to a close on a high note or one a bit lower, it’s good to be reminded that things always seem to even out.
I have come to think of January 1st as a fresh start. A chance to do things differently if need be. A time to let go of any leftover “stuff” from last year…physical or mental. As an adult, I have gotten to the point where I like to clean out after Christmas. The devil’s advocate in my brain is asking me if I’ve looked at my sweater stack lately! Ten years ago I might have shoved more into the drawer or closet but I’ve discovered the satisfaction of clearing out the unnecessary things I accumulate. Watching Hoarders doesn’t hurt either. (I’ve never been close to being a hoarder but this show will scare you into minimalism in a heartbeat!) Other “stuff” is mental and emotional. That is harder for me. I am usually able to get over things quickly but my memory is elephantine. I don’t forget what was said, actions that were taken, feelings that were felt. Those things tend to stockpile in my mental closet, sometimes without my knowledge. Luckily, I have recently acquired the ability to brush away those cobwebs and make room for happy thoughts. I’ll toast to that!
Overall, it’s a good time of year for reflection, hope and happiness. Whether you choose to make a list of resolutions, eat Hoppin’ John or party like it’s 1999, here’s to a great 2010!
